William is celebrating his thirtieth wedding anniversary. I poured a spoonful of paise from the bowl of paise and wanted to know the secret of a long marriage. He looked at me and said, ‘How is Payes?’ I don’t really understand whether I am eating Payes or something else. The taste is not good at all. Still, I shook my head politely and said, it has been quite good.
William laughed and said, ‘I know it didn’t go well. In the beginning, like you, I could not eat at all. But now I do not feel bad at all. That’s a thirty-year-old habit! ’I said, it sounds like a movie at the end of the day! ‘Actually, we understand everything at the end of the day!’ He laughed and said, ‘There is another thing, of course, the lady is cooking my favorite food for me with great care. He is taking recipes from her, looking for cookbooks. To be honest, there was no lack of effort but the taste of the food did not improve. But I have improved. The wife’s hand-made paise has been on the list of favorites day by day. Why do you say that? ’I said, for your wife’s sincerity and love for you. William said, ‘That’s right. Honestly, the relationship is a lot like a sapling. Regular care, in the same way, that a small sapling can one day turn into giant mahogany, strengthens the bond with regular care over time. When you say these things, you say, we are old-fashioned, you are modern. And when I tell my grandchildren, they say, generation gap. All this is nothing. Love, sincerity, a sense of responsibility are the same from generation to generation. His style changes over time. ‘
My colleague Emma, a playful girl. Seeing that day he was sitting with a sullen face, I wanted to know, what’s the matter? He said in a hypocritical rage, ‘We have been married for only two years. Meanwhile, David (Emma’s husband) forgot to wish me a happy birthday. ‘ He said work is not an issue. In fact lack of willpower. If not, why would it be so difficult to remember only one day a year! I said it’s normal to forget, humans are no longer robots. The partridge got angry and said, yes, I think it is normal to forget. But if you can’t remember it, you can keep it with a reminder on your mobile!
Of course, this is true. Seeing that the situation was not very favorable, I remained silent. The rest of the day was spent with the partridge’s temperament.
Suddenly the partridge’s phone rang at night. He said happily, ‘friends, there was a request.’ I said, say it. The partridge said, ‘You will do my duty tomorrow afternoon a little, please.’ I said, ‘Bad body? The partridge laughed and said, ‘Oh no. We’ll be out of Dhaka for a while, so. ’I said,‘ What if the trouble is over? The Emma said, ‘Don’t tell me any more, I’m sitting home upset. At that time Devid appeared and many orchids of different colors in his hand. You know, I like orchids very much. I fell in love with Orchid and forgave him like this time. But I have given an ultimatum, there is no exemption if I do it next time. ‘
The one who was very depressed in the morning is floating in that joy at night. The occasion is not something very big. Some favorite flowers and some time to spend like yourself, busy. Experience in human life says that there are very few reasons why a relationship is bad. In this case, small things or incidents are more involved. Because people are aware of big issues and give them importance as much as possible. Meanwhile, it can be seen that small contempt or neglect accumulates and once touches the sky without the knowledge of the mind. So it is important to pay attention to small things.
“A successful marriage means falling in love with the same person over and over again,” said Mingan McLaughlin, a U.S. writer, and journalist. ‘Really, what a loss to fall in love again and again with a loved one! And there is no set rule that you have to fall in love by saying or beating the drums. Unbeknownst to one, the other does what he likes. Try to keep the relationship alive all the time through small tasks. Maybe the two are away in need of a job or work. Take a moment to call him and see if he has lunch. A small message while drinking tea or coffee – what he is doing.
Feeling annoyed or missing him alone in the late afternoon, feel free to tell your loved one what is on your mind. Remember special days, such as birthdays, first appointments, wedding anniversaries, or any other special occasion. You are too busy, unable to remember; Then put it on your mobile phone with a reminder. At least once a year, the two of them go for a walk somewhere far away, within their means. If you can’t do that, get out of a nearby place. Try to stay close to nature together for some time of the year, the mind will be better. Push away the monotony.
Do something new every day, even if it’s very small. Because of the creation of the ocean with point by point water. Little joy will one day create an epic in your life. People in love do not have to give something too big or expensive. You learn to understand Him, to respect His passion. Give each other time, love, trust each other. Instead of serious quarrels, get into funny quarrels. You will see that life is beautiful, marriage is varied, the family is happy.